EDS babies II

I've still been thinking a lot about having a baby.  I would have to go off all of my medications for the whole time we were trying to get pregnant and then through the pregnancy and if I decided to breastfeed.  I might not even be fertile, as my PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) and hypothyroidism can both cause infertility.

After all of that, assuming I could get pregnant I have to consider passing down my EDS and my Bipolar.  I also have to worry about problems during pregnancy because of the EDS and I'm at a higher risk of gestational diabetes being overweight and having PCOS.

The remaining option to have children would be adoption.  My therapist I see for my Bipolar and PTSD also works as an in-home inspector for families who want to adopt.  She told me that Jim and I would not pass the inspection because of our health problems.  If I cannot lift a baby how could I care for her?  If Jim and I are both having seizures then how could we care for a baby?

I've always wanted children.  I feel as if my health problems have cheated me out of an important part of my life.  I can't help but thinking it isn't fair.  I have a lot of love to give, as does Jim.

What happens now?